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Conquer The Fear Of Speaking And Watch Your Confidence And Sales Grow
By Arnold Sanow   Printer Friendly Version

One of the best marketing tools available today is that of speaking to a variety of clubs and organizations. It doesn't cost a cent and it gives you a platform to market your products and services. If people get to know, like and trust you then working with you and buying your products and services is the next logical step.

Unfortunately, this marketing tool is underutilized because many people have an unwarranted fear of public speaking. In fact, the #1 fear of most Americans is speaking in front of a group. To help you conquer this fear and ultimately increase your sales, follow these guidelines:

  1. Join Toastmasters International - My involvement with Toastmasters was life-changing. Toastmasters is a non-profit organization that helps people master their communication and speaking skills. It's easy to set up a group in your organization or join an existing one. Through a combination of exercises and positive feedback by the other participants you will see your speaking skills and confidence reach new levels. Contact their national office at 1-800-9-wespeak.
  2. Get Rid of the Beliefs and Behaviors that Cause Fear. Many of our fears about public speaking come about due to unwarranted and unjustified thoughts. Here are some negative affirmations and beliefs to put out of your mind forever.

    *Speaking is dangerous to my well being.
    *I failed before in a speaking situation. I will probably fail again.
    *A survey says that public speaking is the #1 fear, so it must be my #1 fear.
    *The audience wants me to fail. The audience is my enemy.
    *I don't have the physical appearance or natural ability. My talents and looks are limited.
    *I may make a mistake. I want to be perfect.
    *Jimmy Stewart, Willard Scott and Johnny Carson have feared it. Therefore, I ought to fear it and avoid it.

    As Abraham Lincoln said, "You are what you think". Before each speaking opportunity, think and write out positive affirmations (i.e. "I'm a great speaker") and you will eventually believe it and become it.
  3. Practice Practice Practice - Learning to become a confident speaker is like learning to swim. You can watch people swim, read about it, listen to people talk about it but if you don't get into the water you'll never learn. Take every opportunity you can to speak!
  4. Focus on a Friendly Face - Everytime you speak there is always at least one person who is smiling, looking at you or nodding in agreement. Keep your eyes on them until you feel relaxed.
  5. Visualize the Audience in Their Underwear - Winston Churchill used this technique to overcome those apprehensive, grim looking people in the audience. It immediately calmed his fears by realizing that everyone is just a person like himself.
  6. Plan - 90% of a good presentation revolves around good planning. If you want to decrease your anxiety -- know your audience, research your topic, prepare a good outline and then follow it.
  7. Visualize a Successful Presentation - Picture the opening, body and the close. Picture everyone smiling, laughing at your humor, applause at appropriate times and then coming up afterwards telling you about the great job you did.
  8. Use your Own Style - Be yourself. Many fears can be attributed to a speaker trying to adapt to a style that is not their own.
  9. Get to the Meeting Early - If possible, I'm always at my speaking engagements at least three hours before I'm scheduled to go on. By being early, I can check out and get comfortable with the room, practice my presentation, and get to know some of the participants.
  10. Meditate - One exercise I use is a relaxation exercise which involves tensing up parts of the body and then relaxing them. For example, I will tense my hands, then relax them. Do this with your hands, feet, head and entire body until you feel totally comfortable.

As Walter Cronkite says, "It's natural to have butterflies, the secret is to get them to fly in formation". By following the formation above, your fears will be replaced with confidence.

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