you do something new, you're not going to do it well. It doesn't matter how
smart, or rich, or confident you are... you're gonna feel incompetent.
Any real change in your life is going to place you into situations where you
don't know how to act. If you're like me, that'll make you feel uncomfortable.
Before you can feel comfortable again, you'll have to learn new things. Learning
takes time. The bigger the change... the more time you'll need.
All change has one thing in common... it forces you to learn. It forces you
Are you looking forward to a change? Like getting married, or promoted, or leaving
your job? Or are you dreading a change? Like... getting married, or promoted,
or leaving your job? In either case... be prepared for some learning. Be prepared
for some perfectly normal 'discomfort.'
with permission of the Author, (C) 2000, Peter de Jager email@example.com